Never Date a Broke Dude

THE BOOK

THE FINANCIAL FREEDOM PLAYBOOK EVERY WOMAN NEEDS BEFORE
LOVE, MONEY, OR POWER COSTS HER EVERYTHING.

A bold, unapologetic guide to mastering money, standards, and self-trust so you never outsource your future to the wrong partner, paycheck, or belief system.

ABOUT

THIS ISN’T A DATING BOOK.
IT'S A POWER (PLAY)BOOK

This isn’t relationship advice. Part manifesto, part strategy guide, Never Date a Broke Dude exposes the costly lies women are taught about love, money, and worth. Because let’s be honest, who you choose is one of the biggest investments you’ll ever make.

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WHO IT’S FOR

THSE WH WANT
MRE AND ARE DNE
APLGIZING FR IT

You’re ambitious. Smart. Capable. But you’ve been told to be patient, accommodating, and “nice.” This playbook is so ready for you if you’re also ready to:

Stop confusing love with sacrifice
Stop carrying financial weight that isn’t yours
Stop shrinking your standards to protect someone else’s ego

This book is for the woman who knows her future is too valuable to gamble on the wrong mindset.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

THE TRUE CST F
NT WNING YUR
WN PWER

Inside these priceless pages, you’ll learn first-hand how to:

Build financial independence even if you’re starting from scratch
Set non-negotiable standards in money, work, and relationships
Advance your career, negotiate confidently, and command respect
Protect yourself financially in love, marriage, and business
Identify red flags early, before they cost you years

This is truly strategy, confidence, and clarity, combined.

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ABOUT THE
SPEAKER

AUTHOR. SPEAKER. FINANCIAL STRATEGIST.
WOMEN’S EMPOWERMENT LEADER. UNAPOLOGETIC BADASS.

I bring real-world experience, financial expertise, and cultural insight together with a clear, grounded delivery that’s thoughtful, engaging, and easy to connect with. With over 25 years in financial services, a background as an attorney, and my current role as a Director of Mergers & Acquisitions Lending, I speak from experience, not theory. I’m also the creator of @duchessofdecorum, a platform followed by over 1 million women, where I teach financial literacy, confidence, and modern power dynamics through honest, lived perspective. My work is rooted in my own journey, from financial struggle to independence, and guided by a deeply personal mission: helping women protect their autonomy, voice, and future, so they can make empowered choices in love, money, and life.

IN THEIR WORDS

PRAISE THAT PROVES

“Pattie! I wanted to reach out because I just finished your book and I was so inspired! I am just starting my career as an attorney and your book encouraged me to start saving and investing money. Thanks so much for your important work.”

— INSTAGRAM REVIEW @sammikramer_

“Laugh-out-loud funny, filled with great stories that will keep you on the edge of your seat, while delivering priceless wisdom about dating, self-worth, and financial independence.”

— DR. JENN MANN, PSYCHOTHERAPIST, BESTSELLING AUTHOR, TV HOST

“Pattie Ehsaei absolutely nails it with Never Date a Broke Dude. This book is honest, fun to read, and full of life lessons every woman EVERYWHERE should want to learn. I found myself at moments laughing into a full on snort, or shaking my head in absolute agreement. It should be a required rite-of-passage reading for every woman in your life.”

— EGYPT SHERROD, SERIAL ENTREPRENEUR, REAL ESTATE & DESIGN EXPERT, HOST

“The essential guide to achieving true financial independence and winning a life as a woman.”

— NADYA OKAMOTO, CO-FOUNDER OF AUGUST, AUTHOR OF PERIOD POWER

YOUR FUTURE DESERVES BETTER STANDARDS

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READ IT. LIVE IT.

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