NEVER DATE A BROKE DUDE
THE FINANCIAL FREEDOM PLAYBOOK
The ultimate guide to mastering love, money, and financial freedom is here.
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ABOUT THE BOOK
In “Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook”, TikTok powerhouse and finance expert Pattie Ehsaei redefines what it means to date, work, and thrive. A “broke dude” isn’t just about income—it’s about mindset, ambition, and values. Through jaw-dropping personal stories and no-nonsense advice, Pattie delivers a transformative guide to owning your financial future.
This four-part playbook covers everything from managing your money to choosing the right partner, and it's packed with actionable tips for modern life. Whether you're navigating your career, building wealth, or protecting your assets in love, this book is your blueprint for success.
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A foolproof five-account system to get out of debt, build credit, and invest with just $100.
Proven strategies to advance your career, dress for success, and negotiate like a pro.
Smart rules for handling finances in relationships—who pays, prenups, and financial independence.
Tips to avoid financial abuse and ensure your money stays *yours*.
Game-changing insights on why choosing the right partner is your biggest financial decision.
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"Pattie Ehsaei absolutely nails it with Never Date a Broke Dude. This book is honest, fun to read, and full of life lessons every woman EVERYWHERE should want to learn. I found myself at moments laughing into a full on snort, or shaking my head in absolute agreement. It should be a required rite-of-passage reading for every woman in your life.”
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
PATTIE EHSAEI
KEYNOTE SPEAKER. AUTHOR. MEDIA HOST. CONTENT CREATOR.
I’m a keynote speaker, content creator, and author based in Los Angeles, California, best known for my TikTok channel, Duchess of Decorum. With over 1 million followers, I share insights on financial literacy, social and workplace decorum, and women’s empowerment. My passion for helping others stems from both personal experience and a 20-year career as a lawyer and manager in financial services, which has led me to my current role as Director of Mergers and Acquisitions Lending.
As the child of Iranian immigrants, I grew up witnessing the profound consequences of my mother losing her financial independence—a loss that ultimately led to the tragic end of her life. This deeply personal experience shaped my perspective and fueled my mission to empower women through financial freedom. It was this conviction that inspired me to write “Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook.” My hope is to ensure that no other woman endures the struggles my mother faced and to honor her memory by turning her story into a catalyst for change.
I know firsthand what it’s like to struggle. I’ve been $30,000 deep in credit card debt and once believed that marrying rich was the answer. But I turned my life around using simple financial tools and a promise to never let a “dusty broke dude” dictate my circumstances in the name of love. Now, I’m sharing everything I’ve learned to help other women reclaim their power.
This mission inspired me to write Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook. This book is packed with my best, no-holds-barred advice on budgeting, investing, spotting relationship red flags, and flipping outdated dating norms on their heads. It’s practical personal finance meets patriarchy-smashing empowerment—a roadmap to financial independence with untold stories and hard-earned wisdom.
Through my content and this book, I’m dedicated to providing women with the tools they need to build the lives they deserve. Together, we can transform personal struggles into stepping stones for progress and empowerment.
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