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I’M NT HERE T HYPE YU UP.
I'M HERE TO FREE YU

For generations, women have been taught to shrink, to doubt their instincts, depend on rules that weren’t written for them, and play small in money, love, and work. I’m here to end that. This is where women stop guessing, start choosing from strength, and AccompliSHE™ on their own terms. AccompliSHE™ is empowerment, not opposition. It’s truth without judgment. Support for every stage of life. Action you can use today. And a voice that sounds like your smartest, most honest friend.

I DON’T SELL EMPOWERMENT, I TEACH WOMEN HOW TO TAKE THEIR POWER BACK.

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THE PROBLEM WAS NEVER WOMEN.
IT WAS THE CONDITIONING.
Women weren’t taught how to manage money, advocate for themselves, or set real boundaries in relationships and at work. Instead, we were fed myths designed to keep us compliant, dependent, and quiet. My mission is simple and unapologetic: To expose the lies that keep women stuck and replace them with truth, tools, and freedom. I bridge the gap between what women were told and what we were meant for by combining practical strategy, emotional clarity, and unfiltered truth. Not theory. Not hype. Real tools women can use immediately to build unmatched confidence, independence, and power that lasts.
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ABOUT

THIS ISN’T A DATING BOOK.
IT'S A POWER (PLAY)BOOK

This isn’t relationship advice. Part manifesto, part strategy guide, Never Date a Broke Dude exposes the costly lies women are taught about love, money, and worth. Because let’s be honest, who you choose is one of the biggest investments you’ll ever make.

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FOR THE WOMAN WHO KNOWS SHE’S MEANT FOR MORE BUT FEELS STUCK:

I DIDN"T GRW UP PWERFUL,
I LEARNED HW TO BECME IT

I came to the U.S. from Iran at seven years old without speaking English and with very little money. From the beginning, I saw exactly what financial vulnerability costs women: freedom, safety, and choice. That lesson stayed with me, and it shaped everything that came next.

In a male-dominated industry, I was often the only woman in the room. I quickly became the top performer in every role I held. Not by luck, but by learning how power actually works.

For years, I was told, directly and indirectly, that I wasn’t smart and talked too much. Dyslexia and ADHD went unnamed, and I learned how to shrink in classrooms and stay quiet in rooms where I didn’t feel welcome. Everything changed when one teacher challenged that narrative and forced me to take an AP class. That was the moment I stopped believing I was incapable and started moving like I belonged. My trajectory changed fast.

I’ve lived through devastating personal loss, walked away from controlling relationships, and rebuilt my life more than once, all by choice. Every lesson I teach is earned. Every strategy I share is lived. I didn’t learn from theory or privilege. I learned the principles of personal and financial freedom by navigating the system, mastering it, and refusing to let it define me. I went on to attend top universities, graduate from law school, pass the bar in two states the first time, and build a 25+ year career in financial services.

ALL OF THIS IS WHY I DO THE WORK I DO.

To help women stop shrinking, start choosing differently, and finally AccompliSHE™ on their own terms.

MY HOLISTIC APPROACH TO PERSONAL AND FINANCIAL FREEDOM

TRUE EMPOWERMENT

doesn’t come from mastering one area of life while ignoring the rest. Freedom is holistic, or it’s fragile. Master money without emotions and you self-sabotage. Master relationships without worth and you shrink again. AccompliSHE™ is the full system and when women master these three, everything aligns.

01 WORTH
Your worth is not dependent on being chosen. You were never meant to be quiet, meek, or apologetic. Without worth, none of the other pillars work.
Knowing you don’t need a man to prove your worth. Spotting red flags. Maintaining independence inside a relationship. Being your own damn Princ(ess) Charming.
Women aren’t bad at work; they’re conditioned to give their power away. This is about visibility, confidence, and getting paid what you’re worth.
Work is how you move, speak, and decide. Play the game strategically, stop shrinking, and build success on your terms.

MEDIA & PRESS

I'M THE REAL DEAL
AND I'VE GT RECEIPTS

My mission has been amplified by major media platforms and trusted outlets that recognize the shift in how women claim power.
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Forbes: Middle Class Investing With Community Impact

MSNBC: How a financial tragedy spurred me to take control of my finances

Franetic: Pattie Ehsaei’s Tips On Wealth, Love, And Confidence

MSNBC: How a financial tragedy spurred me to take control of my finances

Hastybooklist: Author Interview with Pattie Ehsaei

Katie Couric Media: Why Are American Women Still Being Paid Less Than We Deserve?

Bella Media: How to Empower Women Through Financial Freedom

Forbes: 5 Lifestyle Habits That Are Keeping You Or Your Partner Broke

Oprah Daily: 6 Ways to Be Ready If and When the Financial Sh*t Hits the Fan

Brides: How Much Does It Cost to be a Bridesmaid in 2025?

MSNBC: The 5 Money Moves that will Bolster Your Mental Health

Gobankingrates: 4 Money Moves Millenials Should Make Before Inauguration Day

LET’S COLLABORATE

IF YU’RE READY T STP
PLAYING SMALL, LET’S WRK.

WHETHER
YOU WANT

  • One-on-one coaching and clarity
  • A keynote that challenges, empowers, and moves the room
  • A brand partnership rooted in real authority and impact
  • Or for starters, my book, Never Date a Broke Dude


Ready to AccompliSHE™? Make your move.

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